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NPC's
The format used for NPCs will be universal and any and all NPCs presented are welcome to be incorporated into other stories.
Name: George Henderson
Height: 5'8
Weight: 187 lbs
Eyes: Brown
Hair: Blading (wig) brown
Age: 47
Notes/Personality: George is a money man. He isn't interested in details or project overhead. What he wants is income and higher worth on his investments. George can be overly paranoid but is funding the majority of the 1-year documentary.
Name: Steve Trent
Height: 6'
Weight: 225 lbs.
Eyes: Hazel
Hair: Blading, brown
Age: 44
Notes/Personality: Steve is a tech genius, he focuses most of his attention on small productions for internet projects and has quite a crew to help him. This documentary is his big shot to move off the net and on to television. He's overly excitable and quite blunt with his views.
Name: Reeves
Height: 5'7
Weight: 150 lbs
Eyes: Brown
Hair: Brown
Age: 24
Notes/Personality: Posh butler who tends to be all business. He does not involve himself in the personal affairs of Tomas White or any of his guest.
Name: Harry
Height: 5'5
Weight: 175 lbs.
Eyes: Hazel
Hair: Dark Brown
Age: 28
Notes/Personality: Chef Harry is a temporary employee of Tomas White who works in the kitchen. He is French and speaks with a French accent. He enjoys making high-end meals but would never argue with Tomas.
BDSM This section will contain information on the style of BDSM being used in an active story. It is important to note that no information or images will be used that are considered adult-based or inappropriate to the site. However, the subjects discussed in this section are not suitable for everyone and some may find them disturbing. Because of this the entire section has been placed under a spoiler tag.
In addition to this, please know that this content should not be used as a reference to this lifestyle or a guidebook on it. These methods are not proper or conducive to this lifestyle. If you are seeking correct and accurate information on this, you should seek it from appropriate sources.
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BDSM is a specific kind of kinky play, involving activities like restraints, sensory stimulation, power dynamics, impact play, and fetishes to name a few. It's important to remember that the foundation of BDSM always includes consent and safety. Typically, things like pain and servitude are considered unpleasant but, when these things are agreed upon by adults with the intention of invoking pleasure in a safe way this is BDSM. To break it down a little B.D.S.M. stands for a few acronyms, the B and D stand for Bondage and Discipline, the D. and S. stand for Domination and Submission and the S. and M. stand for Sadism and Masochism or Sado-Masochism.
BDSM covers a wide variety of activities, relationships, and fetishes that will fall within the category of these six words. While it is similar to kink, however, BDSM is not sex, and it doesn't have to be sexual. People can engage in BDSM, and it doesn't have to lead to sex at all. However, sometimes BDSM can hold a very sexual charge and the act of it can feel very erotic making it an effective tool to heighten your sexual experience. I want to express that BDSM is not based in abuse or violence it is a controlled practice with a deep understanding of a person's limits and desires. These limits and desires can be discovered with communication and experimentation between the two parties.
While BDSM can involve some risk it should also be noted that risk can also be an essential part of the thrill, but safety is always the primary focus, and this can be improved through practice, knowledge, and technique. A lot of people believe that BDSM is only about power and pain, but this isn't true it really is much more than this. For example, A Dominant and Submissive style BDSM, which is quite different from Slave and Master styles, the main focus of this style while based on control and power does not include objectification or animalization. In this role, the dominant enjoys assuming the role of power where the submissive is happy to relinquish that control.
While it's true the dominant appears to have the power the submissive shares that power because it is them who chooses to submit. In this situation, it's important to know when the submissive wants to submit and how much the submissive is willing to submit. For example, If the Dom required the Sub to kneel then ordered them to do this in front of their family members they may choose not to allow that form of dominance at that time and refuse to submit. Because the choice is always involving their free will this style of BDSM revolves around a type of give and take relationship. These kinds of relationships also revolve around the idea of servitude, where the Dom will set certain rules for the submissive to follow or might require them to complete certain tasks. These rules and tasks are usually negotiated between the Dom and submissive and then go from there. A submissive would then comply in order to please their Dominant. This type of servitude is typically a positive outlet for the Sub because now they have a way to fulfill their need to serve or to please without having to place themselves in that situation with strangers.
So being dominated doesn't only have to happen in person or during a particular scene which is what people refer to when speaking of a sexual act involving this lifestyle. It can include being dominated over the phone or even on the computer and provide the same satisfaction that one might get if that Dom was standing directly in front of them.
It's important to remember that while the Dom will engage in sadism which is the art of inflicting pain to his masochist who should find some enjoyment out of it. Pain limits should always be respected. This really is where most people struggle because this will take the most trust. If the Sub is bound and or gagged and the pain threshold reaches it's limit they need to be able to trust that your Dom will stop or acknowledge their action and or word if they are able to speak. This type of trust is exceedingly rare because being scared isn't sexy and it isn't fun. However, if that trust is given and they can push through that nervousness trusting that their Dom will stop if things get out of line, it can bring a level of pleasure and excitement that is almost impossible to reach because it is so rare to put that kind of trust in someone.
To understand why receiving pain might actually be pleasurable you have to understand that it can release endorphins and even cause a state of euphoria. This can also be referred to or compared to the same type of rush someone might receive when they go Parachuting or bungy jumping. So, one of the things the Dom and Sub should do is communicate after they have explored a scene. It's important during this time to express themselves and explain if there was something they didn't like. Because their relationship can grow and evolve as time goes on. Some of their limits might expand to include things they simply were not aware of or something they just really didn't like. As a Dom, it's important that they respect these things and make sure that they are both still enjoying themselves. Another thing they need to establish is a safe space. What that will be is an area where they don't have to be subjected to their role as a submissive, this space of theirs will be off-limits for their lifestyle. Perhaps they just had a bad day, or something happened and they are not in the right mindset to really perform their role correctly and don't want to be punished for failing. This safe space is where they would go. That doesn't mean the Dom can't go and speak with them it just means the person won't be their Dom when they do or asking them to perform tasks while they are there."
CONTRACTS
A BDSM Contract is typically a written agreement between the Dom and the Sub. If written correctly they can be legally used in a court of law for the duration of the relationship but should not be confused for a legally binding document.
Not everyone in this lifestyle uses Contracts. It's really a personal decision, though it can be very helpful in defining a relationship and what is expected and acceptable during that relationship. This can often avoid strenuous legal suits that could arise should the relationship dissolve.
The contract should typically include discussions where the Dom and Sub can negotiate what has been written out and agreed on. At which time they should review what they will and will not accept and make necessary changes when needed.
Contracts while not legally binding are often respected and viewed with a symbolism that could be equal or greater than that of a typical marriage license or other contracts of similar importance.
Some ideas that should be included in contracts are…
* Responsibilities of each person
* Sub's Veto right and power to refuse Dom's commands in certain circumstances
* Soft & Hard limits which should always be as detailed as possible
* Privacy and confidentiality
EQUIPMENT It should be noted that not all tools will be described here and no vampire BDSM tools will be spoken of or supported as it does not work for the story and is not generally considered safe.
The Riding Crop
This is really the go-to item for anyone stepping into BDSM. It's also a great item to use on someone who is new to this both in using and receiving. The riding crop can be described in three parts. The Grip, which is typically a rubber, plastic, or leather grip which may or may not have a wrist guard. The Shaft, or Middle of the crop. A lot of people suggest that this section can be used as a cane. It shouldn't be, it can easily bend and break and damage the effectiveness of your crop. The Tress or head. This is the end of the crop and is by far the most important part of it.
There are many types of crops, but the most important aspect of these is the Tress. Depending on the thickness, style, and strength of the Tress the experience will be extremely different. For example, a thin wrapped piece of leather can be used for sensual activities and would have a very faint slap if used. Where a thick firm solid piece of leather would have a much more direct slap and would be less forgiving against the skin. There are specialized crops like rubber Tresses, but these tend to hurt quite a bit and wouldn't be recommended for users.
The next thing to know about the crop is that only the wrist should move when striking with it. There should be zero to low arm movement as all your power will come from the wrist alone. (It's not baseball.) As well only the very tip of the Tress should be used, not the section where the Tress is connected, and the shaft and the Tress meet.
The riding crop is quite safe but there are some areas that should be avoided, such as the face, groin, stomach, and spine. Generally, you want to avoid these areas anyway as it is not a pleasant experience to be struck there but there is an exception to every rule. Finally, you'll want to try and focus your slap in a single area until you've received the desired effect then move on. Rapid little strikes in a bunch of different areas will not have the same effect. The crop should only be lifted off the flesh slightly before being reapplied. Using hard strikes with arm movements causes all types of problems that would take a lot of time to get into.
Paddles
There are only really two parts to a paddle, the handle which is where you would grip it, and the blade which is the part that would be used. There are a massive variety of paddles and attempting to cover even a quarter of them is infeasible. They can provide a wide range of different feelings and sensations depending on how it is used and the style that is used.
The intensity of the strike and sensation will strongly depend on the size and the material the paddle is made out of. Wood and leather are the most common but there are many styles including electric and plastic ones. There is also textured paddles which will add anything from small metal studs that are rounded to the blade or extreme versions which could be large ridges. Having a hole in the paddle can also change how it feels as the hole can remove air resistance and cause the paddle to have a much stronger strike than a flat-based blade. All of these styles can change the type of mark it would leave behind.
The weight, size, and texture will apply a lot of thud-like effects to a paddle, versus a paddle that is light, smaller, and thin or leather will give a lot of sting to the strike. Using a paddle isn't very complicated, if you can swing it, you're using it. You should avoid using the sides as that kind of focused strike can cause damage. Safety-wise paddles are best used on the bottom or outer thighs, smaller paddles can be used on inner thighs and such things. Of course, like most tools it should not be used on the stomach, face, spine, or thin areas like feet and hands.
Floggers
This is a more controlled tool. The Dom really should be paying close attention to what they are doing when they start using floggers. There are a ton of types and lots of ways to use them but only a few will be discussed here. It's also important to note that a flogger IS NOT a single-tailed whip. They are vastly different and have quite different results and the two should not be confused.
Floggers have several distinct parts, the first being the handle or grip. This section should be easy to hold and often covered with something to help maintain the grip, so it doesn't slip or fall out of your hand. There are also normally two knots on the handle one at the top of the grip and one at the bottom of the grip. These act as counterweights to the flogger itself. Not all floggers have these though it's recommended you use them. There is typically a loop or hanger on the bottom of a flogger, and this is used to hang the flogger up. It's important to hang the flogger rather than let it bundle so that the end doesn't bundle up and crack, get damaged or bend. The top of the flogger or the ends of it is typically referred to as the falls. The falls should always be roughly the same size, thickness, and length. The very tip of the Falls is what will really change the feeling of the flogger. A soft leather rounded tip is going to have a softer feel to it. Where a spiked or forked tip is going to have more sting and bite to it.
The thickness and quality of the Falls can also change the feeling of it, generally thicker will have more of a thud to it where thinner falls will have more of a sting to it. Also, the number of Falls will have an effect on the feeling, a lot of falls will have a heavier feeling whereas fewer falls will have more sting to them. There are also small handheld floggers which are about the size of your hand not including the falls. These tend to be very thin, on the falls and because of that, it can be an extremely strict pinpointed area of contact with a prominent level of sting to it.
It is also suggested that a flogger is never longer than the user's arm. It's okay if the flogger is shorter though can require more discipline to use. But the length of your arm is about as long as you would ever want a flogger to be. Based on the length the control can change pretty dramatically the weight can also contribute to this so make sure the flogger can be properly handled before using it.
When using a flogger, you really only want to use the last bit of the falls, about four to five inches or three or two inches on smaller ones. (Remember this isn't torture.) How a flogger is used can change the experience for both people dramatically. One of the reasons you use the end of the Falls is to avoid wrapping. Which is something you really need to avoid. Striking an area and letting the end of the flogger wrap can cause a loss of control, and increase pain, injuries, and other such things.
When throwing the flogger (striking) you really want to have a loose arm and only use your wrist. You're not throwing a baseball or swinging a bat and the speed at which, you swing the flogger in a forward or back motion can really change the feeling that you're inflicting with it. There is also the figure eight style of flogging and a cross style. A really important note here, you want to avoid striking bones, the areas that you can easily wrap the flogger on, and thin areas. Typically, you would throw where there is a lot of meat or muscle tissue however this would not and should not include chest areas as the bust can really get complicated with deeper impacts. Always avoid the spine, face, and bones.
Canes
These can come in assorted sizes and styles. That will change how the cane is used and the effect it has when used. Some canes have handles and some do not being a simple cane and leaving which end to grab completely up to you.
Typically, the longer a cane is the harder it is to control. So, when holding a small, thin cane you would want to use your finger up along the grip as a full strike is not needed and you can get a lot of swing and feedback from just moving your finger back and forth. Smaller thin canes can be used in the groin area though as always, you'll want to have a high level of control here.
Most canes will have some bendable aspects to them and are flexible even larger 3' canes with ½ inch thickness are still flexible though on a large cane like that you would really need to be careful as you can do a lot of very real damage. Typically, when using a cane, you're only going to use your finger, wrist, and sometimes depending on how hard you want to strike your elbow. You shouldn't be doing full arm strikes it's just too painful and dangerous. With caning, it's really about precision and location. They can be very intense and leave an exceptionally fine red mark.
When caning you should only be using the end of the cane about three or four inches. Canes are flexible and because of that, they can wrap. If you're trying to strike both sides of the bottom at the same time you would, of course, use more of the cane but again this is something, you'll want to watch as they can wrap which is something you need to avoid. When preparing your strike, you really don't want any angles in your strike and should come at it straight on with a locked wrist. You'll want to do taps usually small rapid strikes for a quicker and more intense feeling like a punishment you'll do a longer strike pulling back more but keep in mind these can hurt quite a bit. Lastly, you'll of course want to avoid thin areas and stick to thicker sections of the body. Thighs, bottom, upper arms. The cane really isn't something that should be used on the back, or chest areas of course always avoid the spine, face, and other overly sensitive or easy-to-hurt areas.
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POSITIONS
There are a number of positions that a submissive or slave could take. However, only the ones that will be used in this story will be discussed here. This area like others is subject to change as more is learned.
Positions are standard poses that a Dom will teach their submissive or slave or bottom. They are intended to be memorized while they prepare for the next command. They are typically used during training and can result in punishing or rewarding them based on if they perform them at the right time and or are performed correctly. Below is a list of some of the popular positions that will be used but they are not limited to these.
As a side note, everyone has different limitations, as a Dom, these limitations should be considered, and some leniency should be shown while the submissive is getting used to the new position. For example, there might be a position that exacerbates an injury or the submissive will just not be flexible enough to perform the position. In these cases, the position should be modified or outright removed. Know your sub's limitations and work with them. Remember that wearing high heels and being forced into a position will almost always make it more difficult to perform.
Kneel
Legs together bent at the knees, feet laid out flat, straight back, palms down mid-thigh, chest lifted to expose bust.
This is the most common position a submissive should take. Kneel shouldn't be difficult to perform or maintain. Wearing heels can make this position extremely difficult to maintain but not impossible.
Kneeling should be as common as sitting down. It is the first and last thing a submissive should think of when with their Dom. Kneeling is required at times to perform other positions like Nadu. Kneeling shows patience and respect and a submissive can be left in this position safely for an extended amount of time. Unless otherwise instructed this should be the default position of a submissive. For example, entering a room and moving over to their Dom. If their Dom suddenly stops and remains still for a prolonged amount of time. There are other times a submissive would take this position, but these are the two most common times unless openly instructed to kneel of course.
Nadu
Leg's bent at knees from kneeling position, Legs spread slightly past shoulders to expose center and show openness, Palms down on mid-thighs facing up, Head downcast.
Nadu is a great starting point when training a submissive. This position is easy to learn and works with kneeling. In order to take this position, the submissive must first kneel then take Nadu. Nadu shows a willingness to submit and open subservience. This is a great position for a submissive to take while preparing a scene or bondage. If a submissive openly took this position without being instructed to do so it might be an indication they desired to play, or they wanted to submit to something a little more kink-oriented.
Humble (Submit)
Kneeling forward, face down, resting on elbows, Hands crossed at wrist stretched in front of submissive, Legs spread just past shoulders, Backside should be slightly lifted.
Humble should be quite comfortable and can be remained in for longer periods of time. Heels do not overly affect this position. While in this position the submissive will not be able to see what you are doing. This position can put the submissive in a relaxed state of mind and is easy to tease or swat the submissive in. The submissive does not need to kneel before taking this position. This position should be ordered and not assumed.
Collar (Leash)
Kneeling in Nadu, Hands behind head, Chest lifted, Neck exposed.
This position has several names but is quite common. It is often used when a collar is being put on or a leash is going to be used and attached to said collar. Often you can see other submissives or slaves performing this position for long amounts of time in corners at public dungeons or a play party. A submissive might assume this position if they know you are about to put a leash on them, or they are receiving a collar. This position can also be ordered for a various number of reasons.
Inspection
Standing position where slaves Legs are slightly apart, arms are behind the head like Collar, Back is straight, Chest is lifted.
This can be a very useful position when inspecting a submissive, or if you want full access to their body while they are standing. It should be suitable for longer periods of time however assure the submissive is not locking their knees.
Wall (Brace)
Standing Position, Hands crossed at wrist and placed flat against a wall fully extended, bent at the waist with bottom fully exposed, Legs spread wide, back straight, Head up.
This position is a fantastic method to prepare your submissive for paddling or other forms of pleasurable pain. Being braced against the wall will allow the submissive to take a thud much easier and brace for the impact. A submissive should not take this position without being instructed to do so. This position can be difficult to maintain in heels, because of the width of the legs a submissive should not be left in this position for a long amount of time.
Service (Wait)
Standing Position, Hands crossed in front of groin, straight back, looking straight ahead, legs close together.
This position is used typically when a Dom wants the submissive to wait or kneeling isn't an option. For example, you wouldn't want a submissive to kneel on a nasty floor. Wait is a suitable option. This position like Kneel should be a default and the submissive should take it when waiting for their Dom. This position is easy to maintain and can be held for prolonged amounts of time. Assure the submissive is not locking their knees.
RULES
Rules have a number of purposes, there can be a few rules or as many as hundreds or even thousands. It really depends on the type of D/s relationship you have and what the two have agreed on. Sometimes rules can micro-manage a submissive's life to the point they are told when to sleep, when to wake, when to eat, and so on. Other times rules can be used as guidelines that add a level of excitement to the relationship. It's very rare but some D/s relationships (or any variety of top and bottom.) can have no rules of any kind. This typically only happens when dealing with kink instead of a lifestyle, but it can happen.
Typically, when a submissive gives power to their Dom there are rules that will enforce that authority over the other person. When breaking these rules discipline and punishment will follow. Which isn't always a bad thing. Enforcing rules is a good way for a Dom to express their power or control over the submissive and can establish clear guidelines that they want to set.
It is a fact that Submissives have a considerable amount of power in a D/s relationship and because of this rules should never be assumed and always be discussed making it clear what is expected and what the two parties agree to. Once a rule is set there can be priorities in case two or more rules conflict with one another but a rule should never be randomly changed. Remember the Submissive and the Dom should have these memorized and if they are changing randomly with new expectations confusion and frustration can result. A big part of Submission is feeling helpless or controlled, rules can help with this. However, rules should always have consequences if they are not followed. Without consequences, you don't have a rule you have a suggestion. Punishments will be discussed in another section. Because there are so many types of rules, only the rules being used in the current story will be posted here. They will only be used as a reference and will not include graphic descriptions that are not suitable for this section on the forums.
Safe Words / Safe Gestures.
If the submissive needs to stop, needs directions and is not okay or something is unclear. They should speak up immediately or use their safe word or gesture to indicate there is a problem.
Sir is a title.
When asking a direct question or making a clear statement. Sir should be used. For example, "Should I do this all the time or only in the privacy of the home? Sir!" / "I need to get some sleep. Sir!" This rule shows submission and respect for the power dynamic.
No Negative or Self-degrading talk.
The submissive is an important person in the Dom's life. He chose the submissive and speaking negatively about themselves is not only insulting them but the Dom as well.
Never be ashamed!
The submissive should never be ashamed of something that excited them. Both parties should have an equal interest in what is and is not fun. A submissive should be free to openly express something that they want to try or that excited them without fear of judgment or retaliation.
Clothing is not optional.
Entering into the private home of the Dom, the submissive is to remove all clothing except for their undergarments and neatly fold them at the side of the door before proceeding into the house. Unless otherwise instructed this should never be skipped.
Acknowledgment.
The Submissive is to stop whatever they are doing no matter what it is and acknowledge the presence of their Dom, anytime they enter the area the Sub is currently in. This Acknowledgment can be anything from "Hello Sir, to something more extreme and is entirely up to the submissive performing it.
Anal Plugs.
Each day for one hour, the submissive must enter the play room and select a plug that they wish to use. Then wear it for one hour and no less than this. They are allowed to wear it longer but this must be performed every day for one hour. They are permitted to do other activities during this time, go outside, sit down, clean, etc.
Be Thankful!
The Submissive will, show their thanks after various activities. Anytime they have an orgasm (Even if randomly during the day.) They are to stop and say Thank you. After a spanking or punishment, they are to give thanks for what has happened.
Of course, additional rules will be added as they are given and learned. This area is subject to change, but the rules are not unless both the submissive and the Dom agree to do so
The Contract!
DEFINITIONS
Submissive – the person that is giving away their power and is absolutely giving into Dominant's will during the BDSM scene.
Dominant – the person that has all the power over the Submissive and is responsible for all the arrangements during the BDSM scene.
Boundaries – a set of soft and hard limits for the punishments, bondage, and humiliation that are not allowed during the scene.
Punishments and Rewards – a set of actions that are taken in case of Submissive's bad or good behavior. The Dominant can only use the punishments they agreed on upon signing the contract and can decide when the Submissive deserves to be punished and if they deserve to be rewarded.
Safe Word – the word both parties agree on to be used if any party is feeling uncomfortable, wants to slow down, or is approaching their limits.
TERMS
This agreement outlines the consensual relationship between the two individuals.
The contract's purpose is to protect the dominant and submissive parties while they both explore the activities they agreed on.
This agreement is valid during the BDSM play scene and does extend upon the matters of, financial matters, or major life decisions.
The initial contract duration is starting from (Today's date) and is valid until the contract is terminated by any of the parties.
The contract can also be terminated at any point by either the Dominant or the Submissive if there are any health or safety issues.
SAFEWORD / GESTURES
The Dominant and the submissive recognize that the Dominant may make demands of the submissive that cannot be met without incurring physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, or other harm at the time the demands are made to the submissive. In such circumstances related to this, the submissive may make use of a safeword ("The Safeword"). Two Safewords will be invoked depending on the severity of the demands.
The Safeword "Yellow" will be used to bring to the attention of the Dominant that the submissive is close to her limit of endurance.
The Safeword "Red" will be used to bring to the attention of the Dominant that the submissive cannot tolerate any further demands. When this word is said, the Dominant's action will cease completely with immediate effect.
The Safe Gesture, "One finger pointed directly out on right hand." Will be treated the same as if the Safeword "Yellow" had been spoken. Gestures are used if the Submissive is unable to speak.
The Safe Gesture, "Two fingers pointed directly out on right hand." Will be treated the same as if the Safeword "Red" had been spoken. Gestures are used if the Submissive is unable to speak.
DESIGN
This private contract is provided as a binding agreement, which defines in specific terms, the relationship and interaction between the participants. This contract defines the personal relationship structure of the parties and is binding only by the integrity of the parties. This contract in no way supersedes the Laws of the United States. This agreement is entered into voluntarily, both parties being fully informed, consensually, without coercion, or undue influence, with both parties agreeing to the conditions and stipulations set out herein.
The Dominant and the submissive each warrant that they suffer from no sexual, serious, infectious, or life-threatening illnesses, including but not limited to HIV, herpes, and hepatitis. If during the Term (as defined below) or any extended term of this contract either party should be diagnosed with or become aware of any such illness, he or she undertakes to inform the other immediately and in any event prior to any form of physical contact between the parties.
ROLES
Dominant and submissive adopt a 24/7 D/s relationship.
The Dominant shall take responsibility for the well-being and the proper training, guidance, and discipline of the submissive. He shall decide the nature of such training, guidance, and discipline and the time and place of its administration, subject to agreed terms, limitations, and safety procedures set out in this contract
The submissive is to serve and obey the Dominant in all things. Subject to the agreed terms, limitations, and safety procedures set out in this contract, she shall without query or hesitation offer the Dominant such pleasure as he may require and she shall accept without query or hesitation his training, guidance, and discipline in whatever form it may take.
DOMINANT RESPONSABILITIES
The Dominant shall make the submissive's health and safety a priority at all times. The Dominant shall not at any time require, request, allow, or demand the submissive to participate at the hands of another Dominant without prior consent or perform in any act that either party deems to be unsafe. The Dominant will not undertake or permit to be undertaken any action which could cause serious injury or any risk to the Submissive's life.
The Dominant accepts the submissive as his, to own, control, dominate, and discipline during the Term. The Dominant may use the submissive's body at any time or in any manner he deems fit, sexually or otherwise.
The Dominant shall provide the submissive with all necessary training and guidance in how to properly serve the Dominant.
The Dominant shall maintain a stable and safe environment in which the submissive may perform her duties in service of the Dominant.
The Dominant may discipline the submissive as necessary to ensure the submissive fully appreciates her role of subservience to the Dominant and to discourage unacceptable conduct. The Dominant may flog or spank the submissive as he sees fit, for purposes of discipline, for his own personal enjoyment, or for any other reason, which he is not obliged to provide.
In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that no permanent marks are made upon the submissive's body nor any injuries incurred that may require medical attention.
In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that the discipline and the instruments used for the purposes of discipline are safe, shall not be used in such way as to cause serious harm, and shall not in any way exceed the limits defined and detailed in this contract.
The Dominant shall never punish the submissive in anger.
The Dominant may restrain, handcuff, or bind the Submissive at any time for any reason and for extended periods of time, giving due regard to the health and safety of the submissive.
The Dominant will ensure that all equipment used for the purposes of training and discipline shall be maintained in a clean, hygienic, and safe state at all times.
SUBMISSIVE RESPONSIBILITIES
The submissive accepts the Dominant as her Master, with the understanding that she is now the property of the Dominant, to be dealt with as the Dominant pleases during the relationship.
The submissive shall serve the Dominant in any way the Dominant sees fit and shall endeavor to please the Dominant at all times to the best of her ability.
The submissive shall take all measures necessary to maintain her good health and shall request or seek medical attention whenever it is needed, keeping the Dominant informed at all times of any health issues that may arise. This includes mental health as well as physical health.
The submissive shall accept without question any and all disciplinary actions deemed necessary by the Dominant and remember her status and role in regard to the Dominant at all times.
The Dominant may, at times, direct the submissive not to touch or pleasure herself sexually without permission from the Dominant.
The submissive shall submit to any sexual activity demanded by the Dominant and shall do so without hesitation or argument.
The submissive shall accept floggings, spankings, paddlings, or any other discipline the Dominant should decide to administer, without hesitation, inquiry, or complaint.
The submissive shall always conduct herself in a respectful manner to the Dominant. The Dominant will direct the submissive how she shall address him. This title is to be used when in the presence of family, vanilla friends, or any other situation which can bring embarrassment regardless of negative attention.
The submissive shall not participate in activities or any sexual acts that either party deems to be unsafe, with or without the Dominant present.
The submissive shall obey the rules, rituals, and protocols.
Important Questions:
Physical Concerns – Do you have any medical conditions, chronic or otherwise, that should know about? (Epilepsy, weak shoulders, skin allergy to latex, etc.) Are you on any prescription medications? Etc.
Mental Concerns – Do you have any phobias or mental conditions that should know about? (Fear of heights, Claustrophobia, etc.)
Limits – Are there any specific scene-related things you will not do? That were not listed.
Fetishes – Are there any specific fetishes that were not listed here which you feel should be mentioned?
Below is a list of BDSM activities…
Place an X next to what you are willing to accept, a ? next to those unknown, and an N for no.
Abrasion:
Age Play:
Anal Sex:
Asphyxiation:
Beating hard:
Beating soft:
Begging/Pleading:
Being Blindfolded:
Being Gagged (gag ball):
Being Gagged (cock):
Biting:
Bondage (heavy):
Bondage (light):
Boot Worship:
Branding:
Breast bondage:
Breast Whipping:
Brown Showers/Scat (feces play):
Caning:
Chauffeuring:
Choking:
Chosen Clothing for:
Chosen Food For:
Clothespins:
Cock Worship:
Collars (wearing):
Corsets (wearing):
Cutting:
Double Penetration:
Electricity:
Enemas:
Examinations (physical):
Exhibitionism:
Face Slapping:
Fisting:
Flogging (back):
Flogging (butt)
Following Orders:
Foot Worship:
Forced Dressing:
Forced Homosexuality:
Forced Masturbation:
Forced Nudity:
Forced Servitude:
Full Head Hoods:
Genital Sex:
Given Away:
Golden Showers (piss play):
Hair Pulling:
Hairbrushes:
Hand Jobs:
Handcuffs (metal):
Harnessing:
Head (getting):
Head (giving):
High Heel Worship:
Homage With Tongue:
Hot Waxing:
Housework:
Human Pony:
Human Puppy:
Humiliation In Private:
Humiliation In Public:
Ice Cubes:
Including Others:
Infantilism:
Injections:
Intricate Rope Bondage:
Kneeling:
Leather Restraints:
Lecturing:
Licking:
Massage(getting):
Massage(giving):
Medical Scenes:
Mommy Play:
Mouth Bits:
Mummification(saran wrap etc):
Nipple torment clamps etc.):
Oral/Anal Play:
Orgasm Control:
Orgasm Denial:
Over-the-Knee Spanking:
Phone Sex:
Piercing (perm):
Piercing (temp):
Pussy Whipping:
Pussy Worship (receiving):
Religious Scenes:
Riding Crops:
Scratching (light):
Sensory Deprivation:
Serving as Ashtray:
Serving as Furniture:
Serving as Maid:
Serving as Pony:
Serving Orally:
Serving:
Sex in Scene:
Sexual Deprivation:
Shaving:
Single Tail (light/sensual):
Single Tail (moderate/heavy):
Spanking:
Speculums (vaginal):
Spreader Bars:
Stocks:
Straight Jacket:
Strap-on Dildos:
Supplying Play Partners:
Suspension (inverted):
Suspension:
Swapping:
Swinging:
Tape Gags:
Tattooing:
Teasing:
Tickling:
Triple Penetration:
Uniforms:
Verbal Humiliation:
Videoed Scenes:
Voyeurism:
Whipping (cat o' nine tails etc.):
Wrestling:
The Answers
Abrasion: RED
Age Play: PINK/ PURPLE (never tried it)
Anal Sex: PINK
Asphyxiation: RED (not against breath play, but I'm scared of being choked. Perhaps we could try masks or something of that sort?)
Beating hard: RED
Beating soft: RED (what does a 'beating' imply in your opinion?)
Begging/Pleading: PINK
Being Blindfolded: PINK
Being Gagged (gag ball): PINK
Being Gagged (cock): PINK
Biting: PURPLE (don't mind as long as it's playful and not used as a torture method. Honestly didn't know this was a fetish/kink)
Bondage (heavy): PINK
Bondage (light): PINK
Boot Worship: PINK (As long as the boots are clean beforehand, it's alright. I guess.)
Branding: BIG RED (no, no, no. Absolute no. A tattoo I could do, but branding as in branding cows is a big NO)
Breast bondage: PINK
Breast Whipping: PURPLE (Never tried it. Curious about it.)
Brown Showers/Scat (feces play): BIG RED (I will murder people if they even think about doing this to me. I'm NOT kidding.)
Caning: PURPLE
Chauffeuring: (I don't know what this is. I can drive you around if you need me to. It's not a big deal.)
Choking: RED (Don't want to have a panic attack.)
Chosen Clothing for: PURPLE (as long as it doesn't happen all the time)
Chosen Food For: PURPLE (I like cooking for myself and I try to be as healthy as I can.)
Clothespins: PINK
Cock Worship: PINK (you'll have to give me tips at some point. Never done this, but I have no problem. My vernacular lacks enough praise for cocks, unfortunately)
Collars (wearing): PINK
Corsets (wearing): PINK (I wore them as a stripper, so I'm used to them).
Cutting: RED
Double Penetration: PINK
Electricity: PURPLE (curious/never tried.)
Enemas: PURPLE
Examinations (physical): PINK
Exhibitionism: PURPLE (as long as it doesn't happen outside of the cameras, I'm alright with doing it in closed quarters.)
Face Slapping: RED (Don't want to have a panic attack.
Fisting: PURPLE (Need a lot of training before this happens. Can I even get a fist inside? Don't know.)
Flogging (back): PINK
Flogging (butt): PINK
Following Orders: PINK
Foot Worship: PINK
Forced Dressing: PURPLE (I would be willing to indulge you, but I do take pride in the way I look. Can we talk about ideas for this?)
Forced Homosexuality: RED (I'm bisexual. I've been with girls. This is not something I would even indulge in.)
Forced Masturbation: PINK
Forced Nudity: PINK
Forced Servitude: PINK
Full Head Hoods: PURPLE (Perhaps we can do this instead of choking? Still scary, but not panic attack inducing)
Genital Sex: PINK
Given Away: RED (triggering- please don't do this. I trust you.)
Golden Showers (piss play): RED (again, does someone have a death wish?)
Hair Pulling: PURPLE
Hairbrushes: PINK
Hand Jobs: PINK
Handcuffs (metal): PINK
Harnessing: PINK
Head (getting): RED (I don't have a penis )
Head (giving): PINK
High Heel Worship: RED (Are you wearing the heels? )
Homage With Tongue: PINK (I write poetry too, if you need more 'homages'. )
Hot Waxing: PURPLE
Housework: PINK
Human Pony: PURPLE
Human Puppy: PURPLE
Humiliation In Private: PURPLE (We would have to talk about this, but I could try it)
Humiliation In Public: RED
Ice Cubes: PINK
Including Others: PURPLE (BIG MAYBE- I would need to trust the other person, too.)
Infantilism: PURPLE (perhaps some aspects of it. Not everything.)
Injections: RED (NO . I don't get them unless I need to.)
Intricate Rope Bondage: PINK
Kneeling: PINK
Leather Restraints: PINK
Lecturing: PINK
Licking: PURPLE (depends on what I lick.)
Massage(getting): PINK
Massage(giving): PINK
Medical Scenes: PURPLE
Mommy Play: Unsure of what to answer.
Mouth Bits: PINK
Mummification(saran wrap etc): PINK (I would require a good amount of aftercare, though.)
Nipple torment clamps etc.): PINK
Oral/Anal Play: PINK
Orgasm Control: PINK
Orgasm Denial: PINK
Over-the-Knee Spanking: PINK
Phone Sex: RED (Why would we need phone sex?)
Piercing (perm): PURPLE (I have a few. Could get more, but I get the say on where I get them. I'm not modifying my body without being consulted.)
Piercing (temp): PURPLE
Pussy Whipping: PINK
Pussy Worship (receiving): PINK (do subs get worshipped?)
Religious Scenes: RED (triggering)
Riding Crops: PINK
Scratching (light): PINK (no marks left behind, please)
Sensory Deprivation: PINK
Serving as Ashtray: RED (I don't smoke and I can't stand the smell. Possibly triggering)
Serving as Furniture: PINK
Serving as Maid: PINK
Serving as Pony: PURPLE (?)
Serving Orally: PINK
Serving: PINK
Sex in Scene: PINK
Sexual Deprivation: PINK
Shaving: PINK
Single Tail (light/sensual): PINK
Single Tail (moderate/heavy): (I've never tried it, but we can figure it out as we go. Don't want to answer yet.)
Spanking: PINK
Speculums (vaginal): PINK
Spreader Bars: PINK
Stocks: (?)
Straight Jacket: PURPLE (Depends on the scene. As long as we don't go into demeaning me for my mental health, I could try them.)
Strap-on Dildos: PINK
Supplying Play Partners: RED
Suspension (inverted): PINK
Suspension: PINK
Swapping: RED
Swinging: RED
Tape Gags: PINK
Tattooing: PURPLE (not against it, but we would have to discuss it beforehand. I've designed all my tattoos myself in the past. We can talk about something to commemorate your ownership, but I make the design myself. Not budging on this.)
Teasing: PINK
Tickling: PINK
Triple Penetration: PURPLE (would need training for this. How can you even do this?)
Uniforms: PINK
Verbal Humiliation: Don't know how to answer. I could possibly be triggered. I don't want to disappoint you.
Videoed Scenes: PINK (kinda have to agree, ya know?)
Voyeurism: Don't have an answer/don't know how to answer.
Whipping (cat o' nine tails etc.): PINK
Wrestling: RED (You would kill me if we wrestled, I'm sure.)
BDSM Continued!
Please read the above warning before reading the spoiler areas.
Table
Kneeling on all fours, hands slightly extended forward, knees shoulder width apart, back straight, head up.
This position will allow the submissive to be used at a table, however, this is not a footrest position and should never be used as one. In the case that it is the submissive is permitted to stop the action to prevent self-harm. This position will be used when eating, playing games, or other functions of a table as needed.
Stool
Knees tucked under the chest, arms bent at the elbow on either side of knees, head down, upright fetal position.
In this position, the submissive can be used as a stool, but should never be sat on. If anyone attempts to sit on the submissive in this position they have the right to stop the position in order to avoid self-harm.
This position should only be used as a footrest for the dominant to use when one is not present. Nothing else should be placed on the submissive during this time.
Ready to Please
Knees speed wide, past the shoulders, hands between legs, head up, mouth open.
This position is taken when ordered, It is intended to be a sexual position, though the top of the shoulders from behind can be struck in this position.
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