Hello all, I'm new to this forum and looking to expand my net of sorts to see if I can find some new and preferably more detailed 18+ roleplay partners whose kinks align with mine. I am a male IRL who can write male or female characters, but I greatly prefer female writers, and female subs are a must; that's not to say that I won't entertain writing with male writers, but any female writers who share kinky interests definitely jump right to the top of my list!
I have been roleplaying on different sites off and on since about early 2019. I have always had a knack for writing my whole life but never found a passion for it until I started to explore my kinky interests via writing stories and roleplaying. I have been very 'long-winded' even before I started writing as a hobby, and starting to explore kinky writing has helped nurture that style of detailed writing.
I tend to enjoy writing detailed 'one-shots' or simple scenarios, typically revolving around shared kinks - whether with backstory or as a more indulgent affair. I have however written some of these in a similar vein to a 'choose your own adventure' book, where some kinky hijinks occur throughout a long journey that we both plot out together. Both are fine in my opinion; the buildup can make the 'meat and potatoes' a lot more fun, but sometimes I do enjoy just cutting to the chase and getting to the good stuff. It just depends on what we'd both be looking for!
To put it simply, the more detail we both write the better! I can write anywhere from 2-10K words per response, though the upper ends of that range tend to occur much less frequently (most people haven't been down for that haha). Normally it's around 3K per response on average, though I may make the starter longer to adequately set the scene how I want, describe my character(s), etc etc. That being said I'm hardly a professional nor do I expect my partners to be one - I am doing this all for fun! I simply enjoy being descriptive and writing to the best of my ability, especially when kink is involved.
In terms of writing schedule, I try to get back as soon as possible; however I'm not the kind of person to just sit down and roleplay with someone back-and-forth, nor do I expect that of my partner. I may sometimes take a few days to weeks to get back depending on my schedule and energy levels, though in general I do have more free time on the weekends or late during the weekdays. I do also struggle with depression so that can have a damper on my response availability, as at its worst it saps my energy and the will to do much of anything. In general though I try to let my partners know if I'm going to be away unless something major/hectic is going on, and I'd ask the same of my partners. I'm not the kind of person to pester or even poke much unless they've been gone for longer than usual, and even then I may wait a week or so just to give some space just in case. I don't want to be a bother especially if your life is quite hectic; I just like to gently poke every so often to make sure that interest is still there or if you need more time. I've no problems with 'canceling' or putting off a RP for a while!
As for the kind of content I like to write, I tend to write more indulgent or explicitly kinky/sexual stories and RPs. Story is absolutely fine by me and it can be a lot of fun to craft a world and characters that fit it, but I'm not super into having a long, drawn-out buildup to the explicit 'meat and potatoes' so to speak. My enjoyment of RPing primarily comes from fleshing out the kinky details.
As for my specific kinks and limits, I am primarily looking to write tickle fetish stories/RPs, preferably alongside foot fetish but foot fetish stuff is negotiable. Tickling and feet have always been a keen interest of mine even before I was old enough to know what sexuality was, and exploring them through writing is quite fun since it blends my kinky interests with my love of embellishment. To be specific, here is a list of my kinky interests and a little description of each.
First and foremost, I am a dom... most of the time. At most I would be willing to switch, but I prefer to be the driving force behind any kinky interactions. The kinds of kinky interactions I like are (more stars = more interest):
****Tickling (Main fetish and what I'm looking to include in our scenarios; naturally, because of my foot fetish, feet are my favorite spot, but I enjoy everywhere head to toe, depending on where one gives the best reactions. I tend to enjoy more erotically-charged tickling, though anything from playful/gentle to torturous/intense all have their appeal. I am a ler (tickler) which means I like to be the one doing the tickling more often than not. I can be a lee (ticklee, the one getting tickled) depending on the scenario but I would greatly prefer being the primary tickler. I do not mind F/M tickling if my character is the one being tickled, but I'm not really interested in tickling male characters unless I was playing a female character; I'm just not into M/M stuff at all, even in a nonsexual context.)
****Foot Fetish (Either giving foot worship to females, receiving a footjob from females or giving one to females. I'm not super duper crazy about my character receiving foot worship, but if you enjoy it we can certainly include it!)
***Orgasm Control (edging/denial, forced orgasms, and post orgasm torture - either with more orgasms or, you guessed it, tickling)
***Bondage/BDSM (I tend to enjoy light-to-medium bondage; basically I don't like anything that's too intense/uncomfortable or covers too much of the body. If anything it's more a means to make my tickling fetish 'easier' with less risk of accidental kicking/punching injury haha.)
**Body worship (I am fine with a lot of body part fetishes like pits and belly, but in general I quite enjoy giving body worship and using the mouth to tease/please/tickle)
**Masturbation (mutually and watching someone pleasure themselves, especially while tickling/teasing them. Can also fun to coerce or 'force' someone to edge themselves, I guess like some kind of JOI or something haha)
**Consensual scenarios (I enjoy some dubcon, but in general I like there to be some mutual interest, attraction or romance between characters, and most importantly consent between them. I don't mind something like Master/Slave or some other BDSM-centric relationship, but it has to be consensual. It depends on the scenario though; i.e. an interrogation doesn't have to feature attraction/romance, but it's more fun to me if it's a dubcon interrogation, where it eventually turns more indulgent and kinky. I do enjoy some non-con on occasion, but it's very, very rare.)
*'Vanilla' sex acts (I'm not super crazy about intercourse - it's more 'means to an end' than something I enjoy for its own sake, though it's made a lot more fun with tickling directly involved. That being said I do enjoy giving and getting oral, and some fingering/teasing with hands can be great fun. I'm happy to defer to my partner's preference; we can include vanilla sex if you like but I'm happy to forego it if it's not your thing!)
Limits (hard nos)
-Incest of any kind
-Dirty/unkempt feet
-Pain/Disfigurement/Gore/Death (I am a teasy kinkster, not a hurtful one; whether it's actual torture or something innocuous like impact play, I don't want to include any kind of pain or directly hurtful kinds of BDSM into RPs of mine)
-Medical Play (I don't mind research/scientific scenarios but nothing involving doctors or a medical field - I have some repressed memories from surgery during childhood that fuel panic/shock attacks in certain circumstances)
-Nonsexual bodily fluids (pee, poop, blood; I don't mind blood or violence if the scenario/setting/scene calls for it, but nothing sexual or kinky involving blood/violence)
-Non-human characters (no furries/anthros, nonhumanoid aliens, etc - I don't mind anything with animal ears/horns/tails, but that's as far as I'm willing to go)
-Inflation/Expansion, Macro/Micro or Giantess/Tiny characters (the one exception would be faeries vs normal-sized people, but in general I don't enjoy if size difference is the primary focus of a RP).
-Anal Sex (I don't mind ass tickling at all, but I don't like anal or anilingus, giving or receiving).
-The forbidden kinks (no characters under 18, no necrophilia, no snuff/death, no bestiality)
When I write it tends to be using original characters or characters created with the scenario in mind; I prefer the freedom to create a character and know how to play them over trying to fit into a mold of playing another fandom's character. That being said I am willing to discuss some fandoms to see if we share any. I tend to gravitate more towards gaming as a hobby, so I'd be more interested in playing in video game fandoms, but I do enjoy some anime, books and movies on occasion.
That being said, if we do RP in a fandom I would prefer to do so in one where our shared brand of kinky interests aren't tone-deaf to the media's setting. For example I'm not interested in doing tickling RPs in something like Halo or Gears of War because it's not a passtime that fits the tone of those games... But if we did something in, say, Dragon Age or Mass Effect, it's not totally out-of-line for something kinky to happen in that world or between its characters.
In terms of tickly scenarios I tend to enjoy ones that involve consent of some kind, or at most some dubious consent that winds up being fully consensual by the end; I very rarely enjoy full non-con. This can range from something as playful as a kinky tickle fight or some erotically-charged, indulgent fun between lovers to something like a ticklish interrogation or experiment that turns naughty. It really depends on the kinds of kinks we enjoy and what we'd like to see happen in the scenario; I am very amicable to all kinds of settings, characters and scenarios! I prefer to know what kinds of kinky fun we're looking to have and then tailoring the scenario to fit that mold, as opposed to having a general scenario outline and 'forcing' a tickly twist in it.
That being said I do have some general tickly ideas that I like:
-A kinky session between lovers/friends (simple but lots of kinky fun!)
-Tickle fight!
-Trapped/stuck and tickled/teased (being in a compromising/embarrassing position and being toyed with by an observer/friend/person trying to help, intentionally or accidentally - perhaps they delay help to have some fun with their now-helpless friend)
-Ticklish Punishment (perhaps punishing a tardy employee, or a lost bet between friends/lovers, or a criminal being sentenced to a ticklish fate... but there's lots of ways to go about this!)
-Ticklish Experiment (Being the subject of some sort of test involving tickling/teasing - testing a new lotion/oil, compound, tool, 'massage therapy chair,' neural tests... again all kinds of ways and means to go about it!)
-Tickle interrogation (Admittedly a soft spot of mine despite its non/dubcon nature. More often than not I enjoy scenarios that eventually turn more erotic and indulgent, perhaps with the captured person discovering their affinity for such methods... and their captor using their enjoyment against them~.)
As for my characters, I do have a list of characters made for such kinky purposes, which I'm happy to share; I don't know the policy about linking things or writing that out in this kind of thread, so I'll instead just share the link if asked, just to err on the side of caution. But if nothing else I'm happy to create a character that fits the scenario we have in mind!
One thing though: I would greatly prefer using another site/service for the actual RP, or perhaps private messaging (if that exists on here) over making a public thread - I've nothing against that kind of roleplaying if it's with a group or open to have others join in, but I'm not exactly interested in sharing/writing more explicit roleplays for others to see as observers. Perhaps it sort of defeats the purpose of posting here but I'm just not comfortable with sharing a private roleplay between another partner and I without both parties' consent, and I'm not exactly comfortable with the idea.
In any case, I hope to hear from some like-minded kinksters sometime soon! I'm still newer to the site so bear with me but I'm happy to chat and discuss ideas and see what we can come up with!
I have been roleplaying on different sites off and on since about early 2019. I have always had a knack for writing my whole life but never found a passion for it until I started to explore my kinky interests via writing stories and roleplaying. I have been very 'long-winded' even before I started writing as a hobby, and starting to explore kinky writing has helped nurture that style of detailed writing.
I tend to enjoy writing detailed 'one-shots' or simple scenarios, typically revolving around shared kinks - whether with backstory or as a more indulgent affair. I have however written some of these in a similar vein to a 'choose your own adventure' book, where some kinky hijinks occur throughout a long journey that we both plot out together. Both are fine in my opinion; the buildup can make the 'meat and potatoes' a lot more fun, but sometimes I do enjoy just cutting to the chase and getting to the good stuff. It just depends on what we'd both be looking for!
To put it simply, the more detail we both write the better! I can write anywhere from 2-10K words per response, though the upper ends of that range tend to occur much less frequently (most people haven't been down for that haha). Normally it's around 3K per response on average, though I may make the starter longer to adequately set the scene how I want, describe my character(s), etc etc. That being said I'm hardly a professional nor do I expect my partners to be one - I am doing this all for fun! I simply enjoy being descriptive and writing to the best of my ability, especially when kink is involved.
In terms of writing schedule, I try to get back as soon as possible; however I'm not the kind of person to just sit down and roleplay with someone back-and-forth, nor do I expect that of my partner. I may sometimes take a few days to weeks to get back depending on my schedule and energy levels, though in general I do have more free time on the weekends or late during the weekdays. I do also struggle with depression so that can have a damper on my response availability, as at its worst it saps my energy and the will to do much of anything. In general though I try to let my partners know if I'm going to be away unless something major/hectic is going on, and I'd ask the same of my partners. I'm not the kind of person to pester or even poke much unless they've been gone for longer than usual, and even then I may wait a week or so just to give some space just in case. I don't want to be a bother especially if your life is quite hectic; I just like to gently poke every so often to make sure that interest is still there or if you need more time. I've no problems with 'canceling' or putting off a RP for a while!
As for the kind of content I like to write, I tend to write more indulgent or explicitly kinky/sexual stories and RPs. Story is absolutely fine by me and it can be a lot of fun to craft a world and characters that fit it, but I'm not super into having a long, drawn-out buildup to the explicit 'meat and potatoes' so to speak. My enjoyment of RPing primarily comes from fleshing out the kinky details.
As for my specific kinks and limits, I am primarily looking to write tickle fetish stories/RPs, preferably alongside foot fetish but foot fetish stuff is negotiable. Tickling and feet have always been a keen interest of mine even before I was old enough to know what sexuality was, and exploring them through writing is quite fun since it blends my kinky interests with my love of embellishment. To be specific, here is a list of my kinky interests and a little description of each.
First and foremost, I am a dom... most of the time. At most I would be willing to switch, but I prefer to be the driving force behind any kinky interactions. The kinds of kinky interactions I like are (more stars = more interest):
****Tickling (Main fetish and what I'm looking to include in our scenarios; naturally, because of my foot fetish, feet are my favorite spot, but I enjoy everywhere head to toe, depending on where one gives the best reactions. I tend to enjoy more erotically-charged tickling, though anything from playful/gentle to torturous/intense all have their appeal. I am a ler (tickler) which means I like to be the one doing the tickling more often than not. I can be a lee (ticklee, the one getting tickled) depending on the scenario but I would greatly prefer being the primary tickler. I do not mind F/M tickling if my character is the one being tickled, but I'm not really interested in tickling male characters unless I was playing a female character; I'm just not into M/M stuff at all, even in a nonsexual context.)
****Foot Fetish (Either giving foot worship to females, receiving a footjob from females or giving one to females. I'm not super duper crazy about my character receiving foot worship, but if you enjoy it we can certainly include it!)
***Orgasm Control (edging/denial, forced orgasms, and post orgasm torture - either with more orgasms or, you guessed it, tickling)
***Bondage/BDSM (I tend to enjoy light-to-medium bondage; basically I don't like anything that's too intense/uncomfortable or covers too much of the body. If anything it's more a means to make my tickling fetish 'easier' with less risk of accidental kicking/punching injury haha.)
**Body worship (I am fine with a lot of body part fetishes like pits and belly, but in general I quite enjoy giving body worship and using the mouth to tease/please/tickle)
**Masturbation (mutually and watching someone pleasure themselves, especially while tickling/teasing them. Can also fun to coerce or 'force' someone to edge themselves, I guess like some kind of JOI or something haha)
**Consensual scenarios (I enjoy some dubcon, but in general I like there to be some mutual interest, attraction or romance between characters, and most importantly consent between them. I don't mind something like Master/Slave or some other BDSM-centric relationship, but it has to be consensual. It depends on the scenario though; i.e. an interrogation doesn't have to feature attraction/romance, but it's more fun to me if it's a dubcon interrogation, where it eventually turns more indulgent and kinky. I do enjoy some non-con on occasion, but it's very, very rare.)
*'Vanilla' sex acts (I'm not super crazy about intercourse - it's more 'means to an end' than something I enjoy for its own sake, though it's made a lot more fun with tickling directly involved. That being said I do enjoy giving and getting oral, and some fingering/teasing with hands can be great fun. I'm happy to defer to my partner's preference; we can include vanilla sex if you like but I'm happy to forego it if it's not your thing!)
Limits (hard nos)
-Incest of any kind
-Dirty/unkempt feet
-Pain/Disfigurement/Gore/Death (I am a teasy kinkster, not a hurtful one; whether it's actual torture or something innocuous like impact play, I don't want to include any kind of pain or directly hurtful kinds of BDSM into RPs of mine)
-Medical Play (I don't mind research/scientific scenarios but nothing involving doctors or a medical field - I have some repressed memories from surgery during childhood that fuel panic/shock attacks in certain circumstances)
-Nonsexual bodily fluids (pee, poop, blood; I don't mind blood or violence if the scenario/setting/scene calls for it, but nothing sexual or kinky involving blood/violence)
-Non-human characters (no furries/anthros, nonhumanoid aliens, etc - I don't mind anything with animal ears/horns/tails, but that's as far as I'm willing to go)
-Inflation/Expansion, Macro/Micro or Giantess/Tiny characters (the one exception would be faeries vs normal-sized people, but in general I don't enjoy if size difference is the primary focus of a RP).
-Anal Sex (I don't mind ass tickling at all, but I don't like anal or anilingus, giving or receiving).
-The forbidden kinks (no characters under 18, no necrophilia, no snuff/death, no bestiality)
When I write it tends to be using original characters or characters created with the scenario in mind; I prefer the freedom to create a character and know how to play them over trying to fit into a mold of playing another fandom's character. That being said I am willing to discuss some fandoms to see if we share any. I tend to gravitate more towards gaming as a hobby, so I'd be more interested in playing in video game fandoms, but I do enjoy some anime, books and movies on occasion.
That being said, if we do RP in a fandom I would prefer to do so in one where our shared brand of kinky interests aren't tone-deaf to the media's setting. For example I'm not interested in doing tickling RPs in something like Halo or Gears of War because it's not a passtime that fits the tone of those games... But if we did something in, say, Dragon Age or Mass Effect, it's not totally out-of-line for something kinky to happen in that world or between its characters.
In terms of tickly scenarios I tend to enjoy ones that involve consent of some kind, or at most some dubious consent that winds up being fully consensual by the end; I very rarely enjoy full non-con. This can range from something as playful as a kinky tickle fight or some erotically-charged, indulgent fun between lovers to something like a ticklish interrogation or experiment that turns naughty. It really depends on the kinds of kinks we enjoy and what we'd like to see happen in the scenario; I am very amicable to all kinds of settings, characters and scenarios! I prefer to know what kinds of kinky fun we're looking to have and then tailoring the scenario to fit that mold, as opposed to having a general scenario outline and 'forcing' a tickly twist in it.
That being said I do have some general tickly ideas that I like:
-A kinky session between lovers/friends (simple but lots of kinky fun!)
-Tickle fight!
-Trapped/stuck and tickled/teased (being in a compromising/embarrassing position and being toyed with by an observer/friend/person trying to help, intentionally or accidentally - perhaps they delay help to have some fun with their now-helpless friend)
-Ticklish Punishment (perhaps punishing a tardy employee, or a lost bet between friends/lovers, or a criminal being sentenced to a ticklish fate... but there's lots of ways to go about this!)
-Ticklish Experiment (Being the subject of some sort of test involving tickling/teasing - testing a new lotion/oil, compound, tool, 'massage therapy chair,' neural tests... again all kinds of ways and means to go about it!)
-Tickle interrogation (Admittedly a soft spot of mine despite its non/dubcon nature. More often than not I enjoy scenarios that eventually turn more erotic and indulgent, perhaps with the captured person discovering their affinity for such methods... and their captor using their enjoyment against them~.)
As for my characters, I do have a list of characters made for such kinky purposes, which I'm happy to share; I don't know the policy about linking things or writing that out in this kind of thread, so I'll instead just share the link if asked, just to err on the side of caution. But if nothing else I'm happy to create a character that fits the scenario we have in mind!
One thing though: I would greatly prefer using another site/service for the actual RP, or perhaps private messaging (if that exists on here) over making a public thread - I've nothing against that kind of roleplaying if it's with a group or open to have others join in, but I'm not exactly interested in sharing/writing more explicit roleplays for others to see as observers. Perhaps it sort of defeats the purpose of posting here but I'm just not comfortable with sharing a private roleplay between another partner and I without both parties' consent, and I'm not exactly comfortable with the idea.
In any case, I hope to hear from some like-minded kinksters sometime soon! I'm still newer to the site so bear with me but I'm happy to chat and discuss ideas and see what we can come up with!