MxF 𝑺𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒉𝒐𝒓𝒔𝒆, 𝒓𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝒂 𝒄𝒐𝒘𝒃𝒐𝒚. 🏇

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Welcome!
Disclaimer: I work full-time (Mon-Sat) and have a pretty active marriage. I reply at a snails pace, slower than a snail. I can promise at the very least three responses per week. Please keep this in mind if you decide to reach out to me. I appreciate any and all patience, as I'm just trying to use RP as a way to wind down after grueling work days. Thank you!​

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Hello friend! Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to read my request thread. My name is Kai and I'm a twenty-five year old married woman with a busy schedule and four demanding kitties. ᡣ𐭩

After taking a hiatus due to some sudden life changes, I'm back and ready for action. I'm a huge lover of romance, specifically modern-ish cowboy romances and I am on the hunt for some. (Anywhere between 90s to now for setting.) I love the chattery nature of small towns and ranches where our characters might take care of horses and cows. If you're looking for something romantic, simple, and heart-warming I'm your girl to message! It won't be all fluff though, because I love dramatics.

Some preferences and expectations I felt necessary to go over:

• You: I do not care what your IRL gender is as long as you're capable of playing a well-written male lead against my female lead. However, I will ask that you are 21+ before messaging me. As I get older, I'm simply uninterested in writing with teenagers― especially when romance and possible smut is involved. (Which it will be!)
• Characters: While this does depend on what kind of plot we do, I will be open and honest about how biased I am towards plots that are older woman x younger man. Of course, there are times where I crave playing the younger out of the two but I'm a real sucker for age gaps with older women who haven't been treated right by their exes finding love with a younger man. Honestly, as long as you're capable of playing a well-written male lead over the age of 18 we'll be set.
• Plotting/Story Building: As much as I love plotting and coming up with ideas, I'm also looking for someone who feels the same and has no issue letting me know when they don't like an idea. Don't let me steamroll with my ideas if you don't like them, and introduce your own as well! I also really enjoy structured roleplay with clear objectives and an eventual end goal. While I appreciate the creativity that comes with adding new ideas and side plots (and would love to add them in!) I also prefer narratives that have an end goal in sight. I believe that all stories have their own natural conclusion, and I really value the opportunity to explore character development within that framework. If you're interested in building a rich, engaging story that ultimately comes to a satisfying close, we'll likely be a great match!
• When Messaging Me: This might just be me being picky! With that being said, I am of the firm belief of first impressions being important. To me, nothing is worse that receiving a message, getting excited about it, only to open it and find "Hey, wanna rp?" Of course I do! I'm on here for a reason. What is your name? What are your roleplay preferences? Anything from my thread that piqued your interest? If getting information out of you is like pulling teeth, I'm more likely to just reject roleplaying with you.
• Communication/Posts: As someone with an incredibly tight schedule, I appreciate any sort of patience you're able to throw my way. To put it bluntly, I'm able to shoot out three responses per week, maybe more depending on how quickly I'm able to get my shit together. Working full-time, moving into a new place, as well as becoming a caregiver has completely turned my schedule upside down. I use roleplaying as a way to wind down from life, and I would prefer if it didn't become a chore. If you love fast-paced back and forth responses, please do not reach out! I will always let you know if I'm unable to reply for more than a week or so, however I am completely ghost-friendly and don't really care how long you take to respond. I'd be happy with one reply per week! (I work incredibly well with folks who also have tight schedules or reply slowly due to disabilities.)
• Writing Preferences: This is pretty simple; I'm comfortable writing third and first POV however I am more experienced in third. I can write in past or present tense, this one I'm not too strict on I'll follow your lead. While I consider myself literate, on a happy day my posts regularly reach around 350 - 1.5k+ words. I am more than capable of writing 2k+, but this will absolutely cause my responses to be slower. I would prefer if my partners are capable of writing 350+, however I do not accept anything below 300. I would also prefer if you have an acceptable grasp of grammar, punctuation, and capitalization. It doesn't have to be perfect, but I at least need to understand what you're trying to say.
• Smut: I am incredibly comfortable with writing out smut, and actually love writing out detailed scenes rather than fading to black. However, I stay within a pretty comfortable ratio of 30:70, the smaller being how much smut there should be. I love the residual build-up of tension between the characters after heavy character development and connections being made. If the story turns into a random pile of filth, I lose interest pretty quickly. I do not write smut out of pleasure or anything like that, but mainly because I get to the point where I ship our characters so hard all I can think about is when they finally snap! That requires a ton of build-up, and I will not hesitate to block you if you're being weird.

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Onto the meat and potatoes; I have very few ideas but lots of photos that give the vibes/aesthetics of what I'm looking for. In the spoiler below, you'll find said photos. (Also tropes that I love! While I'm mainly into modern romances, I am also a huge fan of werewolves and omegaverse so don't be afraid to suggest that if you like it.)

I'd really, really love to come up with something together that we'll both enjoy. To help, I'll give you an idea of what kind of character I'd like to play; I would love to write a woman between the ages of 35-40 who's either going through a bad divorce, is divorced, or has been severely neglected by her husband. Maybe she's a family friend needing a fresh start. Maybe she's an interior designer that will help build and design a B&B on a family ranch. I'd love to tell a story of a woman who's been forced to put on a mask slowly chipping away the pieces of said mask until baring a beautiful woman who her male counterpart is unable to resist!

Tropes I love: Omegaverse, Height/Size Difference, Enemies to Lovers, Friends to Lovers, Slow Burn Romance, Forced Proximity, Opposites Attract/Sunshine x Grumpy/Black Cat x Golden Retriever, Fated Mates, Touch Her and Die, Etc.

Spoiler: Aesthetics