MistyMay
Knight
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Hey all, it's May! How's life for all my sea homies! If you know me from the chat or other forums, you know I'm a bit of a goofball when I'm not talking shop, but don't write me off too quickly. I'm a serious writer and a dedicated RPer, and while I have no illusions of being the "best" or "perfect", I do take pride in what I do and try to put my best words forward (Yahh bad puns~).
Per the tag, I prefer M/M pairs, but you're always welcome to ask if I will do a plot with an M/F or F/F pair. I don't bite, just ask. You never know. Same with kinks. Barring those specifically against the site's policy, ask me. I will say outright, I'm NOT into vore, animals, scat, watersports, mutilation or anything involving characters under 18 - but if it's not those things, I might be down. I'm working on an F-List to help thing along but for now, and always, communication is key.
~ POV
I have a secret hatred for people who restrict POV so I won't be doing that. For me, the purpose of RPing is to tell a story the best way you can. And if you prefer 1st, 2nd, or 3rd POV, all I ask is that you do it well. Frankly, I like 1st person when I'm trying to focus on characterization in a story but 3rd person can be fun to write too in its own right.
~ Post Length/Grammar
As a general rule, I prefer to see 2-3 paragraphs and proper spacing so my eyes don't cross while reading. No seriously, my eyes are kinda fucked so it matters to me. I also sometimes have to use a program to read text when my eyes are really bad so decent grammar helps a lot since it sounds better on the read-aloud. Now if you want to write more than that, be my guest, I'll try and respond in kind, but know that I might a) take a while to respond and or b) not write 3 pages back if the response doesn't fit the narrative. Also, this is an awkward conversation, but I rather get it out of the way now: If you write a really short post and I don't reply after a week, I'll be upfront and tell you now that it's that I don't know how to respond.
~ Timeframes
We are all adults here and we all have different time constraints. I've got work, a boyfriend and a family that so sometimes I get busy. Plus, I've reached out and chosen to RP with you, I've committed to giving you the kind of responses I want to see, so I don't like to rush.
I try to post at least twice a week and proofread my posts so if it takes me a few days, my intentions are to make it worth your while.
~ Planning/Worldbuilding
I am fucking world building and planning trash. I work best when my partners and I talk about the plot and what we expect. This makes it so I don't feel like I'm stepping into toes or pigeonholing the story. Nothing sucks more than when a scene is forced so I will tell you now, I'm gonna PM you if I feel we need to brainstorm. Also, Pro Tip: talking about the plan and where we want our story to go keeps me motivated. And that inspires me so I can responses faster.
~Disengaging
If I'm stuck or unsure how do proceed, I'm gonna ask questions so we can figure it out or disengage if necessary. I do think there is any shame in a thread dying out, but I do think honesty is necessary. If you're in a rut or just not feeling the story as much as you thought you would say something. I respect people who are honest and appreciate that over someone milling out crap or ghosting to spare my feelings. And If you have shit going on and can't RP period - never apologize and always know I got your back. I'll just be happy that you let me know that you have to take some 'you' time :).
If you have a preference ... talk to me. I'm pretty reasonable with accommodations. So long as there is a level of mutual respect between us, I think we can have a lot of fun and make some wicked sick storylines
Per the tag, I prefer M/M pairs, but you're always welcome to ask if I will do a plot with an M/F or F/F pair. I don't bite, just ask. You never know. Same with kinks. Barring those specifically against the site's policy, ask me. I will say outright, I'm NOT into vore, animals, scat, watersports, mutilation or anything involving characters under 18 - but if it's not those things, I might be down. I'm working on an F-List to help thing along but for now, and always, communication is key.
~ POV
I have a secret hatred for people who restrict POV so I won't be doing that. For me, the purpose of RPing is to tell a story the best way you can. And if you prefer 1st, 2nd, or 3rd POV, all I ask is that you do it well. Frankly, I like 1st person when I'm trying to focus on characterization in a story but 3rd person can be fun to write too in its own right.
~ Post Length/Grammar
As a general rule, I prefer to see 2-3 paragraphs and proper spacing so my eyes don't cross while reading. No seriously, my eyes are kinda fucked so it matters to me. I also sometimes have to use a program to read text when my eyes are really bad so decent grammar helps a lot since it sounds better on the read-aloud. Now if you want to write more than that, be my guest, I'll try and respond in kind, but know that I might a) take a while to respond and or b) not write 3 pages back if the response doesn't fit the narrative. Also, this is an awkward conversation, but I rather get it out of the way now: If you write a really short post and I don't reply after a week, I'll be upfront and tell you now that it's that I don't know how to respond.
~ Timeframes
We are all adults here and we all have different time constraints. I've got work, a boyfriend and a family that so sometimes I get busy. Plus, I've reached out and chosen to RP with you, I've committed to giving you the kind of responses I want to see, so I don't like to rush.
I try to post at least twice a week and proofread my posts so if it takes me a few days, my intentions are to make it worth your while.
~ Planning/Worldbuilding
I am fucking world building and planning trash. I work best when my partners and I talk about the plot and what we expect. This makes it so I don't feel like I'm stepping into toes or pigeonholing the story. Nothing sucks more than when a scene is forced so I will tell you now, I'm gonna PM you if I feel we need to brainstorm. Also, Pro Tip: talking about the plan and where we want our story to go keeps me motivated. And that inspires me so I can responses faster.
~Disengaging
If I'm stuck or unsure how do proceed, I'm gonna ask questions so we can figure it out or disengage if necessary. I do think there is any shame in a thread dying out, but I do think honesty is necessary. If you're in a rut or just not feeling the story as much as you thought you would say something. I respect people who are honest and appreciate that over someone milling out crap or ghosting to spare my feelings. And If you have shit going on and can't RP period - never apologize and always know I got your back. I'll just be happy that you let me know that you have to take some 'you' time :).
If you have a preference ... talk to me. I'm pretty reasonable with accommodations. So long as there is a level of mutual respect between us, I think we can have a lot of fun and make some wicked sick storylines
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