DEFINITIONS
Submissive – the person that is giving away their power and is absolutely giving into Dominant's will, during the BDSM scene.
Dominant – the person that has all the power over the Submissive and is responsible for all the arrangements during the BDSM scene.
Boundaries – a set of soft and hard limits for the punishments, bondage, and humiliation that are not allowed during the scene.
Punishments and Rewards – a set of actions that are taken in case of Submissive's bad or good behavior. The Dominant can only use the punishments they agreed on upon signing the contract and can decide when the Submissive deserves to be punished and if they deserve to be rewarded.
Safe Word – the word both parties agree on to be used if any party is feeling uncomfortable, wants to slow down, or is approaching their limits.
TERMS
This agreement outlines the consensual relationship between the two individuals.
The contract's purpose is to protect the dominant and submissive parties while they both explore the activities they agreed on.
This agreement is valid during the BDSM play scene and does extend to matters of, financial, or major life decisions.
The initial contract duration is starting from (Today's date) and is valid until the contract is terminated by any of the parties.
The contract can also be terminated at any point by either the Dominant or the Submissive if there are any health or safety issues.
SAFEWORD / GESTURES
The Dominant and the submissive recognize that the Dominant may make demands of the submissive that cannot be met without incurring physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, or other harm at the time the demands are made to the submissive. In such circumstances related to this, the submissive may make use of a safeword ("The Safeword"). Two Safewords will be invoked depending on the severity of the demands.
The Safeword "Yellow" will be used to bring to the attention of the Dominant that the submissive is close to her limit of endurance.
The Safeword "Red" will be used to bring to the attention of the Dominant that the submissive cannot tolerate any further demands. When this word is said, the Dominant's action will cease completely with immediate effect.
The Safe Gesture, "One finger pointed directly out on right hand." Will be treated the same as if the Safeword "Yellow" had been spoken. Gestures are used if the Submissive is unable to speak.
The Safe Gesture, "Two fingers pointed directly out on right hand." Will be treated the same as if the Safeword "Red" had been spoken. Gestures are used if the Submissive is unable to speak.
DESIGN:
This private contract is provided as a binding agreement, which defines in specific terms, the relationship and interaction between the participants. This contract defines the personal relationship structure of the parties and is binding only by the integrity of the parties. This contract in no way supersedes the Laws of the country they are residing in. This agreement is entered into voluntarily, both parties being fully informed, consensually, without coercion, or undue influence, with both parties agreeing to the conditions and stipulations set out herein.
The Dominant and the submissive each warrant that they suffer from no sexual, serious, infectious, or life-threatening illnesses, including but not limited to HIV, herpes, and hepatitis. If during the Term (as defined below) or any extended term of this contract either party should be diagnosed with or become aware of any such illness, he or she is to undertake and inform the other immediately and in any event prior to any form of physical contact between the parties.
ROLES:
Dominant and submissive adopt a 24/7 D/s relationship.
The Dominant shall take responsibility for the well-being and the proper training, guidance, and discipline of the submissive. He shall decide the nature of such training, guidance, and discipline and the time and place of its administration, subject to agreed terms, limitations, and safety procedures set out in this contract.
The submissive is to serve and obey the Dominant in all things. Subject to the agreed terms, limitations, and safety procedures set out in this contract, she shall without query or hesitation offer the Dominant such pleasure as he may require and she shall accept without query or hesitation his training, guidance, and discipline in whatever form it may take.
DOMINANT RESPONSABILITIES:
- The Dominant shall make the submissive's health and safety a priority at all times. The Dominant shall not at any time require, request, allow, or demand the submissive to participate at the hands of another Dominant without prior consent or perform in any act that either party deems to be unsafe. The Dominant will not undertake or permit to be undertaken any action which could cause serious injury or any risk to the submissive's life.
- The Dominant accepts the submissive as his, to own, control, dominate, and discipline during the terms of this contract. The Dominant may use the submissive's body at any time or in any manner he deems fit, sexually or otherwise.
- The Dominant shall provide the submissive with all necessary training and guidance on how to properly serve the Dominant.
- The Dominant shall maintain a stable and safe environment in which the submissive may perform her duties in service of the Dominant.
- The Dominant may discipline the submissive as necessary to ensure the submissive fully appreciates her role of subservience to the Dominant and to discourage unacceptable conduct. The Dominant may flog or spank the submissive as he sees fit, for purposes of discipline, for his own personal enjoyment, or for any other reason, which he is not obliged to provide.
- In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that no permanent marks are made upon the submissive's body nor any injuries incurred that may require medical attention.
- In training and in the administration of discipline the Dominant shall ensure that the discipline and the instruments used for the purposes of discipline are safe, shall not be used in such way as to cause serious harm, and shall not in any way exceed the limits defined and detailed in this contract.
- The Dominant shall never punish the submissive in anger.
- The Dominant may restrain, handcuff, or bind the submissive at any time for any reason and for extended periods of time, giving due regard to the health and safety of the submissive.
- The Dominant will ensure that all equipment used for the purposes of training and discipline shall be maintained in a clean, hygienic, and safe state at all times.
SUBMISSIVE RESPONSIBILITIES:
- The submissive accepts the Dominant as her Master, with the understanding that she is now the property of the Dominant, to be dealt with as the Dominant pleases during the relationship.
- The submissive shall serve the Dominant in any way the Dominant sees fit and shall endeavor to please the Dominant at all times to the best of her ability.
- The submissive shall take all measures necessary to maintain her good health and shall request or seek medical attention whenever it is needed, keeping the Dominant informed at all times of any health issues that may arise. This includes mental health as well as physical health.
- The submissive shall accept without question any and all disciplinary actions deemed necessary by the Dominant and remember her status and role in regard to the Dominant at all times.
- The Dominant may, at times, direct the submissive not to touch or pleasure herself sexually without permission from the Dominant.
- The submissive shall submit to any sexual activity demanded by the Dominant and shall do so without hesitation or argument.
- The submissive shall accept floggings, spankings, paddlings, or any other discipline the Dominant should decide to administer, without hesitation, inquiry, or complaint.
- The submissive shall always conduct herself in a respectful manner to the Dominant. The Dominant will direct the submissive on how she shall address him. This title is to be used when in the presence of family, vanilla friends, or any other situation which can bring embarrassment regardless of negative attention.
- The submissive shall not participate in activities or any sexual acts that either party deems to be unsafe, with or without the Dominant present.
- The submissive shall obey the rules, rituals, and protocols.
Important Questions:
- Physical Concerns – Do you have any medical conditions, chronic or otherwise, that should be known about? (Epilepsy, weak shoulders, skin allergy to latex, etc.) Are you on any prescription medications? Etc.
- Mental Concerns – Do you have any phobias or mental conditions that should be known about? (Fear of heights, Claustrophobia, etc.)
- Limits – Are there any specific scene-related things you will not do? That was not listed.
- Fetishes – Are there any specific fetishes that were not listed here which you feel should be mentioned?
Below is a list of BDSM activities…
Place an X next to what you are willing to accept, a ? next to those unknown, and an N for no.
Abrasion:
Age Play:
Anal Sex:
Asphyxiation:
Beating hard:
Beating soft:
Begging/Pleading:
Being Blindfolded:
Being Gagged (gagball):
Being Gagged (cock):
Biting:
Bondage (heavy):
Bondage (light):
Boot Worship:
Branding:
Breast bondage:
Breast Whipping:
Brown Showers/Scat (feces play):
Caning:
Chauffeuring:
Choking:
Chosen Clothing for:
Chosen Food For:
Clothespins:
Cock Worship:
Collars (wearing):
Corsets (wearing):
Cutting:
Double Penetration:
Electricity:
Enemas:
Examinations (physical):
Exhibitionism:
Face Slapping:
Fisting:
Flogging (back):
Flogging (butt)
Following Orders:
Foot Worship:
Forced Dressing:
Forced Homosexuality:
Forced Masturbation:
Forced Nudity:
Forced Servitude:
Full Head Hoods:
Genital Sex:
Given Away:
Golden Showers (piss play):
Hair Pulling:
Hairbrushes:
Hand Jobs:
Handcuffs (metal):
Harnessing:
Head (getting):
Head (giving):
High Heel Worship:
Homage With Tongue:
Hot Waxing:
Housework:
Human Pony:
Human Puppy:
Humiliation In Private:
Humiliation In Public:
Ice Cubes:
Including Others:
Infantilism:
Injections:
Intricate Rope Bondage:
Kneeling:
Leather Restraints:
Lecturing:
Licking:
Massage(getting):
Massage(giving):
Medical Scenes:
Mommy Play:
Mouth Bits:
Mummification(saran wrap etc):
Nipple torment, clamps etc.):
Oral/Anal Play:
Orgasm Control:
Orgasm Denial:
Over-the-Knee Spanking:
Phone Sex:
Piercing (perm):
Piercing (temp):
Pussy Whipping:
Pussy Worship (receiving):
Religious Scenes:
Riding Crops:
Scratching (light):
Sensory Deprivation:
Serving as Ashtray:
Serving as Furniture:
Serving as Maid:
Serving as Pony:
Serving Orally:
Serving:
Sex in Scene:
Sexual Deprivation:
Shaving:
Single Tail (light/sensual):
Single Tail (moderate/heavy):
Spanking:
Speculums (vaginal):
Spreader Bars:
Stocks:
Straight Jacket:
Strap-on Dildos:
Supplying Play Partners:
Suspension (inverted):
Suspension:
Swapping:
Swinging:
Tape Gags:
Tattooing:
Teasing:
Tickling:
Triple Penetration:
Uniforms:
Verbal Humiliation:
Videoed Scenes:
Voyeurism:
Whipping (cat o' nine tails etc.):
Wrestling: